PRIDE

It’s Pride month and it’s led me to some self-reflection, about my own story.

I met my amazing wife at a gig 18 years ago. We both worked in the music industry. We were broke, full of energy and striving to progress our careers. We loved music and going to see new bands. Together we owned an impressive CD collection (it was 2006!) that filled our entire flat in London. Life was vibrant!

I was working for major record labels at the time (for almost a decade), and throughout that time I really was in a very small minority of women who were openly part of the LGBTQIA+ community. 

I wouldn’t say this prevented me developing my career, and I rarely experienced any negativity from colleagues/clients regarding it. But I will say that it added another layer of feeling different and ‘othered’ in a very male dominated environment.

This is why I feel like it’s important for me to be visible as my authentic self. I don’t often talk a whole lot about being married to a woman because quite frankly it’s one of the least interesting things about me! It also doesn't define me.

However, I’m talking about it now as I want to show that visibility, as it’s important in society. My post may help another woman own her sexuality within the entertainment industry, or even just feel less alone. Being your authentic self and not hiding part of who you are will set you free.

This Pride month I encourage my network to connect with anyone in your company, industry or community who identifies as part of the LGBTQIA+ community and get a little curious. Be kind. Be authentic. Be an ally. 

Also, to any women reading this who may be looking for a safe place to be your authentic self and talk about any challenges you may be facing in your career, my coaching space is here for you. I fully accept every part of who you are.